Wednesday, January 20, 2010

懂得在雨中起舞時,愛就不需要任何原因了。。。。

這幾天,先是一个海地的地震,震碎了许许多多人的家园,那片土地顿时变成了民不聊生的人间炼狱。然后再一个让六个大好青年丢命的龙舟意外事件,还有国内的一些大大小小荒谬事件,让草禾刀的心情也有点郁闷;好像提不起劲的。草禾刀就趁着此文愿将一切善行、善心的功德回向受苦受难的众生。。。。。

昨天,连续收到了两封很温暖的电邮转递,虽然只是两则不起眼的小故事;不过,这两段人间有情却让草禾刀的心里有点暖暖的感觉。。。

如果,您读过这两则小故事,也请您别吝啬您的时间;既然来到了草舍,就歇一歇吧!

1。I want to dance in the rain...

It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly gentleman in his 80's arrived at the hospital to have stitches removed from his thumb. He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am. I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him. I saw him looking at his watch and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound. On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound.
在一个忙碌的早晨,八点卅分左右,一位约八十岁老伯伯来医院要为他拇指伤口拆线。我为他作了健康状况检查,让他坐在一旁,心里很清楚老伯伯必须再多一个小时才能见到其他人。见到老伯伯一直看着手表,想着既然没有急着看其他病人,就先检查老伯伯的伤口吧。他的伤口复原得很好,我就让一位医生处理他的伤口了。

While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry. The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife. I inquired as to her health.
在处理伤口的过程中, 得知老伯伯并没有其他医生的预约,老伯伯说他需要赶去护理中心与太太一起吃早餐。

He told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease..
As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late. He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now. I was surprised, and asked him, 'And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?'
老伯伯告诉我他太太已经住在那里一段日子了,她身患年老痴呆症。我问他,太太会不会对他的迟到感到失望。他回答说太太如今并不知道他是谁,她早在五年前就不认得他了。我很惊讶的问他:“她已经不认得您了,不过您还是每个早晨去看她?”

He smiled As he patted my hand and said, 'She doesn't know me, But I still know who she is.'
老伯伯拍拍我的手,微笑着对我说:“她不认得我,我却知道她是谁。”。。。

I had to hold back tears as he left, I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought,
'That is the kind of love I want in my life..'

True love is neither Physical, nor romantic!
真愛并非在于生理,或是浪漫的需求!

True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
真愛是接受目前、曾经、将会或将不会发生的一切。

With all the jokes and fun that are in e-mails, sometimes there is one that comes along that has an important message. This one I thought I could share with you.
在一些笑话与娱乐的电邮中,偶尔会捎来一则重要的信息。我想这则我可以与您分享。

The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; They just make the best Of everything they have. I hope you share this with someone you care about. I just did. 'Life isn't about how to survive the storm, But how to dance in the rain.'
最快乐的人不一定要拥有一切最好的东西,他只要懂得善用他所拥有的。希望您能和您所在乎的人分享。我刚做到了。“生命并不是如何在雷雨中幸存,而是如何在雨中跳舞。”

2。Does Love need a Reason....??

Some people never understand

Once a lady when having a conversation with her lover, asked:
Lady : Why do you like me..? Why do you love me?
Man : I can’t tell the reason.. but I really like you..
Lady : You can’t even tell me the reason... how can you say you like me? How can you say you love me?
Man : I really don’t know the reason, but I can prove that I love U.
Lady : Proof? No! I want you to tell me the reason. My friend’s boyfriend can tell her why he loves her but not you!
Man : Ok..ok!!! Erm... because you are beautiful,
because your voice is sweet,
because you are caring,
because you are loving,
because you are thoughtful,
because of your smile,
because of your every movements.
The lady felt very satisfied with the man s answer.

Unfortunately, a few days later, the Lady met with an accident and went in comma.

The Guy then placed a letter by her side, here is the content:

Darling,Because of your sweet voice that I love you...Now can you talk? No! Therefore I cannot love you.
Because of your care and concern that I like you..Now that you cannot show them, therefore I cannot love you.
Because of your smile,because of your every movements that I love you.. Now can you smile? Now can you move?No, therefore I cannot love you...

If love needs a reason, like now, There is no reason for me to love you anymore.

Does love need a reason?
NO!Therefore, I still LOVE YOU...
"True love never dies for it is lust that fades away. Love bonds for a lifetime but lust just pushes away"


Immature love says: 'I love you because I need you.'
Mature love says 'I need you because I love you.'
'Fate Determines Who Comes Into Our Lives, But Heart Determines Who Stays...'


草禾刀也曾经很喜欢追问:“你喜欢我什么??”,年少时的草禾刀也被那草禾刀自己也觉得好笑的“答案”逗爽了大半天。不过,当变化来临时“喜欢”的答案也成为了“不喜欢”的理由了,一体两面啊!

山盟海誓的承诺是比不上踏踏实实的实践呀!!不过,女人呀!女人!都会迷信在山盟海誓的包装里,很多时候都会把点滴流露的实践给忽略掉了。

或者,真愛,是这么样的。。。。

12 comments:

eddieliow said...

适当时给与女性一点善良的谎言也是个不错的方法。

波波 said...

這是真的咯,婚前我家老白頭最常說他愛我那張得理不饒人的口,婚後他最常說他恨我那張得理饒人的口。

其實,不都同一張口嗎?

草禾刀, blee said...

eddieliow : 有时女人要的不是“善良的谎言”实际行动呢,女人会感激在心。。。

波波:“婚後他最常說他恨我那張得理饒人的口”,酱他是不是还最爱您那张得理“不”饒人的口??

Fairnation said...

本来要潜水的,上来歇一歇。

人生不过如此-沈兴 said...

该怎么说呢?女人的心难以捉摸,而男人要的也只是很简单,关心,这两个字。在说,爱情这两个字,也是难分辨谁对,谁错。爱的时候有一万个理由,不爱的时候,却只是一个烂理由。最容易的说法,我们性格不合。一句话,就被定罪。没得上诉的机会。只好流泪去新山,还能怎样哦!
注-我不是说全部的女人,以免被乱箭攻击。我只是说出我的心里话。坦白者无罪。

波波 said...

排寫──!
寫漏一個字,他也最恨我得理不饒人的口。

本來最喜歡的,變成最恨的,你說是不是要搥心肝?

Fairnation said...

用心感觉就好了,没有心什么都是赘言。

普普 said...

齐秦的《爱情宣言》里有这一段歌词:

我相信患难的真情,我不信生生世世的约定。。。

二楼后座-interzone said...

心中的桃花源有多大,就看你心胸有多宽。
两个人的世界,是互相容忍,而不是占有。
一个人不可能一百分,但是两个人各五十分,就是完美。

草禾刀, blee said...

发乃声:上来透一透气啦!别客气!!除了用心。。。适当时也要表示一下。。对方不是您肚里的蛔虫呀!

沈兴:世界上没有两个人的性格是一样的。草禾刀相信异中求同,除非她是真的很不喜欢您的性格。不过哦,如果真的不喜欢您的性格的话当初就不会在一起呀??!难道是因了解而分手??没有弥补的机会吗??

波波:难道那是您们之间的情趣??(草禾刀八卦ing)

普普:您这一番话出现不止一次咧。。。普嫂和您是酱的??

二楼大哥:心中的桃花源,心中有桃花源。。。有时候转一个念头,缺点会变成优点呢!!

chongsiew said...

"适当时给与女性一点善良的谎言也是个不错的方法" 但行动仍是最好的,不要忘记,她也是你的另一半.

草禾刀, blee said...

chongsiew:除了举双手,草禾刀也举双脚赞成!!